Inner Kids

Little children all in a row.
Dirty-faced.
Bright eyed.
Some glare at me.
Some smile.
All are defensive.
I smile,
Introduce myself
And wait,
Still and silent.
One, a freckled redhead,
Shrugs her shoulders in doubt.
Another, hairs straying from her pigtails,
Stands,
Lips aquiver in fear.
I do not push.
I am not forward.
I have time to wait
And will.
Waifs.
Urchins.
Orphans?
Unsure.
Unloved.
Unwashed.
I see their fear.
I know it.
I am well acquainted
With desertion,
Abuse,
Distrusting any adult.
I crouch.
Making myself smaller,
I wait with open heart.
The littlest one,
Diaper askew,
Eyes big,
Dragging a one-eyed Teddy Bear,
Steps forward.
She looks up at me solemn as an owl.
She smiles
Uncertainly,
Tugs at my shirt and asks,
"Hug?"
My heart leaps with joy.

Musing On Moving

Brats and burgers and various brews
Boxes surrounding the sink
Across the room you wink
Causing me to rejoice and think
Of the difference in my views.

Good friends gathered a friend to assist
Laughing and gay are we all
Eager to answer with help the call
Stacking everything straight and tall
Relentlessly we persist.

Holding a baby I watch you smile
My thoughts begin to stray
Wondering about the day
For which we hope and pray
And for which we wait awhile

Newfound hope has arisen in me
My life is begun anew
In the surprising discovery of you
Of the future a dream renewed
Of the Me becoming a We

Someday we'll find our lives renewed
A space in this world we'll own
Together our lives will be sown
Never again to be alone
Having burgers and brats and various brews.

After The Fall

Bedclothes scattered,
Twisted,
In grotesque disarray,
Lie like the silent dead,
A testament to the violence of battle.
They rise in the witness box,
Tossed and rolled in struggle,
Against the demons of personal Apocalypse.
They whisper the tale.
How Doubt pointed her flint sword.
Accusing,
Berating,
Shrilling incantations.
How Fear burnt across the field.
Dragon's fetid torch
Scorching the soul.
How Remorse closed his icy fingers.
Gripping fiercely,
Choking the heart.
How Shame, pale rider of death,
Mounted on his bony steed named Guilt,
Rode forth.
Cutting,
Slashing,
With sword of unrelenting,
Unyielding,
Unmelting ice,
He trampled the wounded beneath hooves of iron.
This was an agony of the soul.
This was the knell of disappointment,
Of failure,
Of knowing pain inflicted on the heart of the One.
The One loved.
The One cherished.
The One to whom was sworn protection,
Fealty,
Loyalty,
Unceasing care.
Apology, though given a dozen ways, was not enough
To satisfy,
To assuage the bitterness of her wounded heart.
Repentance,
Though offered definitively, was insufficient balm
To soothe,
To bind up the gash apparent in her soul.
Trust carefully built over months
Has been dismantled.
Not merely broken.
The words resound like a judge's voice in a silenced courtroom.
Disassembled.
Set back.
The clock turned in the reversing of time,
Of history built,
And now razed.
Days?
Months?
Years?
As though to a time when others stood
Axes in hand.
Taking turns hacking
They chopped against
The trunk of her magnificence,
Determined to cut away at the pillar rising from her roots.
I have risen pain-wracked,
Doubt, Fear, Remorse, and Shame
Cackling their banshee accusations.
Has mine been the final cut?
Have I at last been the one
To sever
The fragile thread of love?
Has she tottered her last
And fallen to rest dying
In the humus of decayed promise?
Oh, that I could return
That final chip.
Oh, that with the rising of the sun
I could feel the rays of hope
Rather than the gall of her disappointment.
Oh, that rather than the gurgle of death
I could hear those three words,
Sweet as honey,
Life-giving,
Rising as a song on golden bird's wing.
I forgive you.

The Ride

Red head thrust forth
As if to sweep in the whole,
Ears back in the breeze,
Hair dancing like leaves in autumn's farewell,
She grins
In joy.
Teeth bared,
Lips flapping like wrinkled,
Elderly underarms.
Such joy!
Such unencumbered happiness!
Torso balanced by stiffened elbows
Holding tight to the window ledge,
Precarious,
A climber clinging to a narrow projection,
Buffetted,
Pummeled at every toss of the gale,
She revels,
Poised in the moment.
Such anticipation!
Such savoring!
This is the revelation of what it means
To take a ride!
This is the glory of endless now.
This is the dance of the road.
This is my dog!

When A House Is A Home

Like a silvery, specter of dread,
The words rise as from some dark and nether place.
"Let's rearrange the furniture."
Chills of unease
Race up and down my spine
Like ghastly greyhounds,
Harbingers of the ill will that is come.
Skeletal fingers tear the words from my throat,
"Yes dear, I'd love to help."
Lies.
Lies.
It is all lies.
Her sweet words sung like a nightingale
Clash with my concerted politeness.
Both know
What is to come.
Ugly words.
Strained patience.
Temper.
But...
What is that?
She desires my opinion?
This is not according to the script.
Unless,
It is some sly method of deception
Designed to lend frail and imaginary
Vested interest to my horizons.
Wait...
What, my dear?
Here is an accession to my idea.
This is definitely not according to the script!
What mystery here?
I am but the man.
Toter.
Burden-bearer.
Silent Oompa Loompa.
It is not my place to birth an idea,
Let alone tender one.
Pause...
Oh, you meant over here?
See...
Here comes the verbal lash.
I knew it would not last.
Yet...
What are you laughing at?
Me?
Hah! I knew it!
No?
You actually like it better where I put it?
A breath...
A dim spark of hope gleams somewhere
In the depths of my repression.
Dare I ask?
Dare I suggest another idea?
Why yes, I dare!
Inwardly flinching,
I throw my crumbs amidst the feast of ideas.
Hold...
Accepted!
Used!
Inadvertently,
Almost unconsciously,
A smile breaks triumphantly across the landscape of my visage.
This is fun!
She likes what I think!
She accepts,
Nay she encourages,
My input.
This is grand!
I am recognized as a partner,
A member of the band.
Not just a roadie.
Oh, joyous day!
Flash...
I am not a drone,
A merely breeding male.
I am a person,
Whole,
Wholly accepted in her eyes,
Her mind,
Her heart.
I have made my mark,
Set my seal,
Imprinted my hands upon the very concrete of our space.
Not rebelliously.
Not in the face of derision.
Not in the stern look of disapproval.
In welcome.
In the joy of sharing fully.
Realize...
This is not a house.
This is not merely a home.
This is our home!

Celebrating The Unexceptional

Too much we dream

Of the exceptional,

The distinctive,

The remarkable.

We predicate the framework of relationships

On the unusual.

The unending flow of passion,

Interrupted

Only by the sweetness of constant accord

Is all too often our standard.

Romeo and Juliet surely never dealt

With bad breath,

With bad debt,

With bad moods.

Truly though,

Shouldn't the security of relationship

Be founded instead in the mundane?

Shouldn't the safety net of entanglement

Be built

On the conventional, the expected, the accustomed?

Dirty dishes,

Mowing the grass,

Reading side by side,

Shopping for groceries and socks,

Silent coffee in the morning,

May be prosaic, conventional,

But it is in the commonness of the commonplace

That lives are truly entwined.

I treasure the engraved foil cards of Valentines Day,

But,

I live for the joy of the unexceptional with you.

I want the orthodoxy of the habitual with you.

Come fold clothes with me and be my love.

The Wonder of Intimacy

Fear has been displayed.
Darkness has been revealed.
My person has laid
Splayed open for examination,
Spotlit,
Presented on stage
For an audience of one.
The cool breeze of thoughtfulness
Has blown against the burn,
The reddened skin of my heart,
Where broken trust has torched
Like radiation.
Risking judgement,
Condemnation,
Abandonment,
I have bared my shame.
The carefully constructed mask
I show to all
Has been cast aside,
And my true face is visible.
My ugliness,
My deformity,
Have been called forth,
Blinking and squinting
At the brightness of the unaccustomed light.
You do not shrink away
Nose wrinkling in disgust.
I see neither horror nor shock visible
In your reaction.
Instead,
With loving touch,
Gentle care,
Soothing murmur,
You cradle my rawness in love.
Shuddering with tremorous dismay,
Dread,
Delight,
I feel the balm of your acceptance.
Anticipating the cut,
The slap,
The turn on the heel to depart,
I find instead validity,
Respect,
Caring.
I have never experienced this intimacy.
Passion's shudderings,
Breathless panting,
The entwining of bodies,
Has been my boundary.
My doorway to the intimate
Has been nakedness of another kind.
You look at me where none has gazed before.
Your lips brush my raw and true self
With healing concern.
You fingers grasp,
Stroke,
Insistent on entry to a virgin place.
My soul.